DO take the page from the magazine with the picture of the dress you want into a bridal shop. Note the magazine name and issue date on the page.

DO inquire about the alteration policy. Most stores charge for this because employing an expert seamstress/tailor is an additional cost for them. Custom fitting is as important as the style of the gown.

DO set a budget. The cost of a wedding dress averages between $700-$800, but can range from $300-$2,500. Know how much you are willing to spend, and be prepared to buy if you find your dream dress. Most Bridal salons require a 50% non-refundable deposit.

DO use a credit card when paying your deposit. If the dress is not delivered or there are problems, the bank that issued the card can be contacted to issue a refund.

DON'T order a dress that you have not actually seen.

DON'T buy at a hotel sale unless the sponsor has a bridal shop in town. Traveling shows are cash and carry. You have no way to reach the seller and no recourse if you're not happy with the dress.

DON'T rush to accept an all-inclusive price (free headpiece, petticoat), because the level of service is often reduced by the amount of "extras" promised. Beware of incredible deals.

The time of your marriage ceremony, coupled with the degree of formality you wish for your wedding day, usually determines the appropriate clothing to be worn by members of the wedding party.

Ceremonies before 6 o'clock are considered daytime affairs, while evening affairs commence at 6 o'clock or later. While simple, elegant styling is considered in good taste at any hour, evening celebrations allow participants to wear more elaborate attire.

Your mother and your fiancé's mother should wear dresses that complement each other in style and in color. Both fathers should wear formal wear identical to that of the groom and groomsmen.

In a second marriage, the bride should feel free to follow her wishes, and white is a valid choice.